what does IMing have to do with relationship satisfaction?

Apparently, more than I thought! I found and interesting article on MSNBC and thought I would share it with you…

“The words that flow from our fingers to loved ones could say more than we think. The more frequently women use the pronoun “I” in their instant messages (IM), the more satisfied they are with their partners, a new study finds.

The guys also reported higher satisfaction incouples where the gal used “I” a lot in IMs.

While past psychological studies have analyzed couples and their communication techniques in lab settings, the new study, published last month in the journal Personal Relationships, relied on real-life scenarios. Continue reading


question time.

ok i know that for any of you people reading my blog, you are doing so for a reason. the topic of sex is everywhere and very much a interesting topic for all around the world. however, along with it, the topic of sex can also have a taboo to it. some people are afraid of even saying the word sex. say it. outloud, right now. sex.  SEX! now was that so bad? ok if there are people around you, you probably recieved some awkward glances, but you did die did you? did you get hurt in any way shape or form. no. there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with the topic of sex. Continue reading

More sex during holidays?

Oh yeah! 

Statistics show that Americans are having more sex during the holidays than any other time of the year. I’m guessing it probably has more to do with alcohol than anything else. What do you think?

Apparently, it spikes around New Years. The more time people have, the more they fool around. Research even shows there is a jump in births in September, nine months after all the Christmas and New Years madness. I guess I can understand why this is…I mean, if its winter and freezing outside, then more people are going to be inside trying to keep warm. What better way is there to do that then some good old-fasioned sex, huh?
Ah, the holidays… 

30 things women love that men just don’t understand

Acorrding to The Frisky, these are the 30 things that women LOVE that men just don’t understand! [they are in no particular order. at least i dont think they are….hmmm]

  1. drunk online shopping
  2. trapeze dresses [what are those even? – *note to self: google later*]
  3. having a good cry
  4. dark nail polish
  5. reality tv dating shows [never really got into these]
  6. brunch
  7. constantly changing one’s Facebook status
  8. frozen yogurt [hell yeah!]
  9. gossiping- about people we know, don’t know, or know through mags, TV, and movies
  10. cooing over adorable pictures of baby animals
  11. sexless cotton brief underwear
  12. the swiffer
  13. “Twilight” [not for me- haven’t read it yet]
  14. music of Beyonce, Chris Brown, and Madonna
  15. musicals [oh yeah! grease, rent, mamma mia!…etc]
  16. short haircuts [actually my bf keeps begging me to cut my hair off but i love it long!]
  17. chuck bass [mother may i]
  18. shopping during a crisis
  19. multiple bed pillows [8 on mine]
  20. girly drinks
  21. $50 scented candles
  22. movies starrring and/or produced by Barrymore or Witherspoon [so very true]
  23. men who appear dirty and grimy, but are actually totally hot! 
  24. michael cera [no, not for me, sorry]
  25. miniatures
  26. astrology
  27. collecting magazines
  28. dancing
  29. jeans tucked into boots [bf actually thinks its hot- lucky me!]
  30. foreplay 
What do you think? Any others you’d like to add to the list? Comment below 🙂

Cooking with Cum

Natural Harvest – A Collection of Semen Based Recipies

“Semen is not only nutritious, but it also has a wonderful texture and amazing cooking properties. Like fine wine and cheeses, the taste of semen is complex and dynamic. Semen is inexpensive to produce and is commonly available in many, if not most, homes and restaurants. Despite all of these positive qualities, semen remains neglected as a food. This book hopes to change that. Once you overcome any initial hesitation, you will be surprised to learn how wonderful semen is in the kitchen. Semen is an exciting ingredient that can give every dish you make an interesting twist. If you are a passionate cook and are not afraid to experiment with new ingredients – you will love this cook book!”

Wow. I think now I have seen it all. What is your opinion of using semen in recipies? Please leave a respone in a comment below. 

the top 10 striptease songs.

If you’ve ever performed a lap dance, you know just how important song choice is. The right music can instantly transform you into a sex kitten and provoke your body to move in ways you didn’t know you were capable of! AskMen has created a list of the top 10 songs meant to do just that! 

  1. “Pony” — Ginuwine
  2. “Eyes Without a Face” — Billy Idol
  3. “I’m a Slave 4 U” — Britney Spears
  4. “Buttons” — Pussycat Dolls
  5. “Closer” — Nine Inch Nails
  6. “She’s Always in My Hair” — D’Angelo
  7. “Sex (I’m a)” — Lovage
  8. “Hot in Herre” — Nelly
  9. “Justify My Love” — Madonna
  10. “Cream” — Prince

In the right hand column of this blog, you will find a playlist of 9 of the songs listed above [couldnt find one] so you can hear and judge them for yourself. 

Is there a song missing from the list that you think would be a great track for an even better striptease? If so, tell me in the comments below!

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